Tuesday, October 20, 2015

Grandma quits

No surprise- my mom quit. She's so stubborn & wont admit it's her physical & mental inability. She's pointing fingers, & saying its to salvage/ not further damage her relationship with me.  Here's the thing, it's all in her head. She's a sensitive Susie that needs all the hair pets in the world.  I've only "critiqued" her in 2 areas, where I created "rules". Otherwise, I've let her have free reign.  

SHe only lasted 2 weeks, even though she says its 3. I can't count the first week, cuz she watched Natalie for a day and was out or commission for 4.  

She keeps doing this sad face with lip pout, and how she wished she raised Natalie for a full year (until she's 18 mo) TO Natalie. Like prop Natalie on her lap to say this, & baby kept crying. After she did this a couple times, I sorta snapped at her and pointed out baby is crying. If you take her from me during the sleep routine, help me out & don't let her cry. Hold her or something, 

Honestly, now that she quit her "job"- I feel like I don't have to hold my thoughts.  I've told her I had to bite my tongue, and only mentioned what I must as mama bear being protective.  

K, long rant over 

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